I just need to rant as this girl makes me so sad lol, alt account bc she has my Reddit. I quit smoking last year around August, started talking to a girl who was against smoking around October so it was a big push/help to get me to stop. We broke up around March this year (back together now) and I smoked once a few weeks after when my extended family visited from across the country when we were out at bars, I was honest with her and told her about it and she was upset and said she doesn’t want friends in her life that smoke either, cool it was a weak moment from me and I haven’t smoked since. My dad is a homeless drug addict and my 3 siblings all smoke weed religiously, ones addicted to coke and alcohol too. Another is addicted to alcohol. Addiction runs in my family and I know I can’t smoke in moderation at all so I quit completely. Was I overreacting with my response? I just feel so belittled, I’ve been going through extreme depression and this is one thing I’m really proud of myself for but the person who should be proud is like my biggest hater when it comes to this.
Side note: I know my response initially saying “I don’t need you to tell me that but okay” may have been harsh but it’s just a weird thing in my eyes to bring up knowing I don’t smoke. And it’s not like I was asking for permission to visit my friend. And the reason she has trust issues is because her ex lied to her about smoking when they were like 15/16, but I’m 22 years old I don’t need to lie to anyone